Riot and Frolic

The Right Tools For the Job: PART DEUX

Recently, I was on the panel of a ballroom dance critique event.  You know, one of those competition-like numbers that's not a competition, but where you get written feedback on your dancing?

Good times.

This one was mostly collegiate dancers and therefore, generally new to ballroom dancing and... broke. 

Considering that a very decent collegiate club I work with is $50/semester and has professional instructors teaching FOUR HOURS A WEEK, I understand that a pair of ballroom dance shoes might seem like an OUTRAGEOUS expense.  

Therefore, I was [always have been and still continue to be] shocked to see how many ballroom dance girls have black practice shoes for their footwear. Or straight up rhythm shoes.  

Now, if you'll refer to my previous post on this same subject, you'll see a groovy flow chart about what shoes might be the best fit for you.  And since NONE OF YOU LISTENED, I made a poll on Instagram to see what was up. 

And then my brain exploded, as well as my DMs.

NOW, put on your seatbelts because it's going to be a bumpy ride.

Black Practice Shoes

No, they should not be your FIRST PAIR OF SHOES if you have no funds with which to buy another pair of shoes before your first performance. 

They make your legs look short, draw attention to your feet, and are not made to be pretty.  AND WE'RE ALL MADE TO BE PRETTY, DAMMIT.

IF you wear them for a performance (a competition, or even a ballroom dance critiqued event), you should be wearing black leg coverings (fishnets, tights, or pants) to elongate your leg lines and look like a bad ass.  If you have an injury which prevents you from wearing your "big girl shoes" (aka, a legit pair of Smooth or Rhythm shoes), then you must abide by these rules, as well.

YES, they are comfortable and cover your precious toes from marauding partners who might step upon your them, but STOP IT. 

Nude Practice Sandals

YES, these should be your first pair of shoes.  

They are versatile, have the same heel as the one above, and don't look stupid with not-pants.  

You can buy any shade of nude needed, they are often made of leather (to stretch to fit your feet), and won't make you look like Bambi on ice.

[Back to the poll, people way cooler than me voted for nude practice shoes. So there.]

Rhythm Shoes

Please see the picture above.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA.

But no, really. Wearing a pair of 3" heels while trying to figure how to stand up straight does not behoove anyone.

ESPECIALLY NOT WHEN YOU'RE DOING SMOOTH. 

Rhythm/Latin shoes are made to pitch you towards the balls of your feet to maintain forward poise while the shorter shank gives LESS SUPPORT (which is great for Rhythm and Latin, where you're trying to articulate [point] your feet), but not great for Smooth when you need to rely on a sturdy heel to support your toe releases and heel leads.

They are not versatile, making Smooth/Standard footwork nearly impossible for newbies to oldies.  And for many of us who enjoy our trainers, Crocs, and Uggs on the regular, hitting up a high heel right away is not a confidence-builder.  Build up your dancing muscles (core, back, hips, knees, ankles, feet, oh hecking everything) with an easy  low heel before going full-on Barbie. 

NO, Rhythm shoes should not be your first pair of shoes.  

AND LET ME TELL YOU, I bought a 3" pair of BLACK LATIN SANDALS for my first pair because no one told me not to and I hated Smooth for 10 years. COINCIDENCE? Probably, but I also snapped the heel off of one of those bad boys doing Foxtrot, so there you go.

Smooth Shoes

WHAT HAS THE WORLD COME TO WHEN SMOOTH SHOES ARE MY SECOND CHOICE?

Smooth shoes are not "comfortable" or "pleasant" to wear. They are foot jails.  BUT if you find the foot jails that fit you, they are tolerable.  

They also have a lower heel that Rhythm shoes, with a longer shank (aka, more support) for your newly dancing feet and ankles, and DON'T INHIBIT GOOD FOOTWORK.  Heel OR toe leads are completely manageable in these shoes.  Toe releases? NOT IMPOSSIBLE.  In fact, HIGHLY POSSIBLE.  Easy, even.  

Do I keep showing your Supadance shoes? Yes, because I love them and Joanna Leunis. Always have, always will.  I also love International. Bloch and Capezio and Very Fine do all right. There's a few other makers that are doing well, but I can't attest to them personally. Some brands fit different feet better (have generally smaller heel cups, wider vamps, thicker soles, etc.) so it's very helpful to try on a variety of shoes from a variety of makers, which is hard to do since many are overseas or just not local.  So that sucks, but there's a fun challenge for you! Find your perfect shoe and live happy!

A Plea

Ye who work with college students or just new dancers in general, can we make movement to recommend a versatile and helpful shoe to our students?  Just like we don't recommend Latin heels to new guys, let's get all our dancers in a great beginner shoe, so they can all turn up like this at the end of the movie.

Go forth and conquer.

 

Ballroom Dance Etiquette (Or How To Be Awesome in the Studio) : Group Class

First of all, there's no "I" in "group class", but there is in "private lesson".

Did I write this whole post just to use that line?

Yes.

BUT SERIOUSLY...

It is a group.  You are part of a group.  You are one of 3-100 other unique individuals who are comprising a party of participants.

You are in a class.  You are in a class with preplanned material for a particular level of dancer.  The class is an organized educational experience with a teacher who has been hired for their skills and knowledge in communicating a certain thing.

You are there to soak up the instruction, encourage your fellow classmates (by smiling, nodding, and deferring questions to the teacher), follow the directions given, and internalize the patterns and techniques being introduced (or reviewed) by DOING THEM.

Group classes are for skill building.  Have you learned about heel leads before?  Maybe. Are you doing them 100% percent (yes, I meant what I typed) of all the time always when you are supposed to be? I will answer for you: NO.  Do you practice heel leads? Maybe.  Could you practice them while taking [what one hopes to be] a fun, sociable event geared towards other people like you, or people who would like to do what you do? I'll answer again: YES.  Heck, you could even practice your current technique of choice in a class without disturbing the other unique individuals in class!  

Here's some things to keep in mind while attending a group class:

• DO NOT GIVE FEEDBACK TO YOUR CLASSMATES. DO NOT.  No, I know you're going to say, "What about..." STOP IT. Whatever you're going to say doesn't matter.  Do not "teach" while during class.
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• Arrive on time and stay for the whole class.  
• Stay off your phone. 
• Switch partners.  Unless you're in a community education class, most studios and teachers have participants rotate partners.  I PROMISE YOU IT IS WORTH IT.
• Let the teacher teach.  This person has a plan, a method, and might have written more blog posts than the number of group classes you have attended [OR A SIMILAR AMOUNT OF EXPERIENCE]. Come along for the ride.  It'll be fun. (And if you hate it, try a different teacher.)

If you have a very particular question, I urge you to re-read the first sentence.

See you in class!

Episode 12 : Dancing Out of Category

What is "dancing out of category"? Should I avoid it? Run head first into it? OR SHOULD I CONSULT A PROFESSIONAL?

This is based on a blog post from March 13, 2020 called "Dancing Out of Category".

My favorite podcast is The Thrilling Adventure Hour.

The ISTD is the unfortunately-acronymed, blue-ribbon standard (STATE FAIR JOKES! DANCE JOKES! ALL IN ONE PHRASE!) for the International styles.

The link that was supposed to be in my original post: https://riotandfrolic.typepad.com/blog/2015/12/dancing-downer.html

Support the show

Stop Taking Private Lessons

This is what is called "click bait" in the internet age.  

Aimed mainly at my dearest dear darling collegiate students and suspiciously self-sufficient amateurs, this one's for you.

Things you can learn the week of a competition

What times do I dance?

What does the floor look like in the ballroom?

Who is judging?

What particular outfit from my competition gear am I choosing?

When am I doing my hair and makeup?

Who is doing my hair and makeup?

Who is videoing my dances?

What restaurants and coffee shops are nearby?

What time does the closest bar close?

Where is the restroom closest to the ballroom?

Where’s the practice room?

Where’s the changing room?

Where should I park?

 

Notice that none of those things started with “HOW”.

I love you, but stop taking lessons the week before your event.  Well, stop taking your only private lessons of the year the week before you compete.

You know when you’re dancing in an event months, or at least weeks, in advance.  TAKE YOUR PRIVATE LESSONS THEN.  

The week before you dance an event, if you haven’t been taking private lessons previously or consistently, you know what I’m going to do? I’m going to tell you some nice performance tips like: stand up straight, look up, smile, etc.  While that CAN be helpful, you’re not really learning anything, just being reminded of things you already know to do.  Which again, CAN be helpful.

BUT.

Are you going to learn any terrific technique that you can apply in less than six days?  Are you going to learn any new figures that you are going to make look nice, well-rehearsed (aka, like you know what you’re doing), and correct in less than six days?

NO.

I’m sure you’re thinking, “But I will practice them and I’m really quick at picking up new what’s-its and this will totally be worth my time and money”.  

IT WILL NOT BE.

It takes about 300 repetitions of something to make it “learned”.  Yes, yes, you might know what you’re supposed to do, but knowing and doing are two very different things, my friends.  And if you can crack on with 300 repetitions of each new thing you’re told within a week of your performance event, you are a better person THAN EVERYONE ON THE PLANET.

Teachers will often ask what kind of information you’re looking for, if you’re taking a lesson with them for the first time: something along the lines of “this weekend” information, “next month” information, or “one year” info.  Roughly, they’re wondering what can they tell you that you can apply immediately (smile when you are in left side position; say “purple hippopotamus” when you bow), what can they tell you that takes a bit of practice but won’t explode your brains (follows do two toe releases on feather finishes; here’s a simple Silver routine), or what is some great information for you to practice for the rest of your dance life (LATIN MOTION or Standard Foxtrot “basics”).

And private lessons are the BOMB when you’ve been taking group classes as your primary form of instruction.  The generalized form of instruction provided in groups is GREAT for learning patterns and broad rules of movement, but are not specific to you, your physiology, your partnership, and your talents.   So, stop taking private lessons right before an event and start improving your dancing… sooner. Like now.  GO NOW.

 

 

The Right Tools for the Job: Ballroom Dance Shoes with Flow Chart

Hey babes,

I'm going to leave this here and then come back later with OPINIONS and FACTS.

Go forth and practice.